Why Your Mother Is Typically A Bitch….
By: Eden Hansom
My tune MAY change if I have a son of my own, but one thing that all of us women can relate to at least once in our lifetime is that we’ve all encountered a bitchy boyfriend’s mother.
Some of us will save face and try to put up a front for smooth sailing….others, not so much.
So why is a guy’s mother a bitch? Here are some of my thoughts.
Your First Impression Sucked
First impressions ARE EVERYTHING. It might very well be YOUR fault to why she is such a nightmare bitch to you. The first meeting will set the tone to how they will treat you and it’s the moment where your A game should be at top notch performance. If you weren’t feeling it the day you two met…she felt the vibe and she’ll forever be giving you the same attitude.
That’s Her Only Baby
Nothing is WORSE than dating an ultimate Momma’s Boy. Nothing you do is EVER good enough because you’re just the girlfriend, and she’s THE MOTHER. Don’t let her be a homemaker too while you’re focused on a career. She’ll have tons to say about that. I dated one of these before. His mother was concerned about me taking care of a household and kids rather than me being an intelligent young woman with my head on straight. I don’t think she knew that we can do BOTH now.
She’s Alone and Bitter
This also can fall under Momma’s Boy but it has more to do with her being alone and not wanting to let go. She hates everyone and she SPECIFICALLY raised your man to be nothing like the man who left her to raise her child on her own. She’s a great mother but never took time out for herself. Now that he baby has a life now, she feels that YOU are trying to take him away from her. You’re validated….she is a bitch until she sees you’re not going anywhere.
It’s The Only Ammunition We Have In A Fight
It’s the only low blow we have to get under your skin in a fight when we have nothing else to say. You already have an excuse to an issue we have with you. You already dispelled our argument by bringing up something else that totally reduced our credibility a story. You have a smart ass comment for everything else we have to say. In desperation, YOUR MOMMA IS A BITCH.
I’ve had some of the most wonderful relationships with boyfriend’s mothers and I’ve had some NOT SO peachy keen relationships. The fact remains, we all have encountered one or two. What’s your Mother from Hell story?
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