I Hate That You Moved On Before Me…..And I Kinda Hope You Get Dick Cancer
That’s a little drastic and I don’t really wish anything that severe on a person…..it’s just how I felt…….at the time.
As dignified women……we hold ourselves to certain standards, even though in certain situations we wished we would have said what was on our minds. Holding your head high and never allowing a man who’s done your wrong to steal your energy is always the move but for my sisters…..I know this is how we really feel inside.
If I can be honest for a second?
It is…what it is.
I hate the fact that you’ve moved on so easily while I sit here still trying to figure out my life.
It’s baffling how many blessings a shitty person can get while I sit here trying to do the right thing, yet I still get shitted on. If I treat people like how you treated me, will things finally start turning around?
I know………this may sound like a post from the “Bitter Bitch Committee” or a “Woe is me” act but hey, it’s how I feel. And I’m going be real about it.
I DON’T LIKE THE FACT THAT YOU’VE MOVED ON BEFORE ME.
WHY CAN’T YOU QUIT HIM?????????????
It’s because you keep entertaining his bullshit.
I don’t know what it is about the this man to woman dynamic that’s got us out here putting up with bullshit.
But we do.
Especially when a man does shit that we all know is completely ridiculous and furthermore proves his inability to fully commit to what you want.
Here’s the thing…..you can talk about all the things that he does wrong until you’re blue in the face.
But if you continue to answer his text messages, Facebook inquiries, emails, etc………. you continue to entertain him.
It doesn’t matter if you only give him one worded answers either, you are still amusing him. And this is why he is still in your life and not adding any type of value to it.
What I’ve BEEN learning as of late……..you can’t enjoy your future unless you’re fully ready to let go of the past. And if this guy that you know isn’t doing what he should to fulfill your needs as a woman, then you have to completely let it go.
Doesn’t matter if HE’S the one contacting you.
You have the choice to respond or not.
Just because your phone rings……….
It doesn’t mean you have to answer it.
People who don’t bring anything to the table don’t deserve your energy so stop wasting it on them because they’re invaluable to you and your life.
"Basic" Shit A Man Should Just KNOW
Not in the “I need a man to know how to make rack of lamb and beef wellington with potato rosettes drizzled in a balsamic glaze….” type of way either. Just in a “knows how to make something other than sandwiches, Top Ramen and cereal” type of deal. A man that doesn’t have to rely on a take out menu or a drive-thru window but can AT LEAST make spaghetti or some beef and broccoli can clearly take care of himself if he’s hungry. Nothing’s worse than coming home to a stressful workday and having an idiot look at you as if your job description says “short order” cook on that bitch.
The Black Woman’s Demise: Banana Powder
Oh my God make it stop!
Yesterday, I was trolling the internet for interesting news and came across an article about Tami Roman and how Black Twitter (cause let’s be real…..no one else really cares) was dragging her by her edges for “bleaching her skin”.
Here’s my thing.
The Power of The Puss
So yeah, it’s been a while since I’ve wrote anything so I thought this would be the PERFECT story to reintroduce you all to my madness. This is a story that happened about a month ago. I’ve just been so busy with work and telling this story to all my homegirls that I’ve now decided to share with you all. Please believe, we laugh EVERY time I tell it…… it’s so ridiculous it can’t be real.
But alas, it DID happen.